Every negotiation is different, I have a saying I use in training sessions, “Negotiation is circumstantial”. There isn’t a proscriptive approach that will work for every negotiation. You have to change your style and strategy to suit the circumstance of the situation. As a point of reference I will refer to what I call The Wheel of Negotiation as a guide to help establish what type of negotiation you are involved in. Many of the tips I am including in this series “10 Tips etc…” will vary to a degree depending on the type of negotiation. You can read about each style or type of negotiation independently if you wish by visiting the Negotiation Basics page.
I’ll cover 1 or 2 different tips in each of the next posts so that I can devote enough time to fully explore the subtleties across The Wheel and still limit the post so it doesn’t become a novel. If my head cold dissipates I’ll record some of these as video posts as well.
The first tip is to follow me…… I’ve trained over a thousand individuals working for fortune 500 companies. I’ve been involved in multi-national, multi-party negotiations involving billions of dollars. You’ve read about the deals I’ve put together in the wall street journal (in fact, there are at least 3 deals in the last 2 months that appeared in WSJ). I’d reveal all the information behind these deals, however, I am prohibited by NDA agreements, and as you can imagine most of my clients do not want it publicized that they used a consultant to plan and execute their negotiation strategies. Seriously, enough tooting my own horn, I’ve decided to publish this blog this year to make all of these negotiation secrets public knowledge for anyone motivated enough to take the initiative. Let’s get started.
Opening Position – just like first impressions, your opening position is the most important move in any negotiation. It begins the process of setting and managing the other party’s expectations. You want to be as extreme as you dare, yet realistic within the parameters of the situation. I want to stress the realistic part, if you are unrealistic you run the risk of crossing the piss-off-point and deadlocking the deal unnecessarily.
If you are involved in a Hard Bargaining negotiation (distributive) be very extreme, if it is a Win Win negotiation (collaboration) you can not be as extreme because of the need to establish and maintain trust. The main idea here is to open up ABOVE what you want. (more…)